Susanna Wesley (born Annesley; 20 January 1669 – 23 July 1742) was the offspring of Samuel Annesley and Mary White, and the mother of John and Charles Wesley.

Even though she never delivered a sermon, published a book, or established a church, she is celebrated as the Mother of Methodism. This is because two of her sons, John and Charles Wesley, were influenced by the example, teachings, and environment of their upbringing.

The Methodist Church in Britain also notes that as a writer, theologian, and teacher, she merits acknowledgment for her own contributions.

Susanna Wesley was the youngest among 25 siblings. Her father, Samuel Annesley, was a Dissenter from the Church of England. At the age of 12, she ceased attending her father’s church and became a member of the Church of England.

She married Samuel Wesley on 11 November 1688; Samuel was 26 years old while Susanna was 19.

Susanna and Samuel Wesley had 19 children, nine of whom died in infancy, including four who were twins. One child was accidentally smothered by a maid. At the time of her death, only eight of her children were still alive.

Susanna Wesley, famously established 16 rules for raising her children. These rules emphasized discipline, obedience, and instilling a strong sense of morality and faith from a young age.

Here’s a breakdown of her 16 rules:

1. No eating between meals.
2. Bedtime at 8 p.m.
3. Take medicine without complaining.
4. Subdue self-will and work with God to save their souls.
5. Teach children to pray as soon as they can speak.
6. Require quiet during Family Worship.
7. Give children only what they ask for politely, and not what they cry for.
8. Punish no fault confessed and repented of, to prevent lying.
9. Never allow a sinful act to go unpunished.
10. Teach children to fear the rod (physical discipline).
11. Never punish a child twice for the same offense.
12. Comment on and reward good behavior.
13. Praise attempts to please, even if imperfectly done.
14. Preserve property rights, even in small matters.
15. Strictly observe all promises.
16. Require daughters to work only after they can read well.